Let’s say, I’m not conventionally good looking. What girls call hot. Which is why I haven’t used conventional dating sites that use an ‘appearance-based match-making process.’ I can’t use someone else’s photo in the hope of getting my foot in the door, so to speak, long enough to get to know her and she me, because when we eventually meet I’m not the guy in the photo from the dating site — she’ll be disappointed. What is a guy like me do to find true love? By the way, I am 37-years-old, really six feet tall, and keep in shape. I also am gainfully employed and love sailing.
–John, Rhode Island