My wife is having an affair with this guy she works with. I don’t believe they are having sex, because she is very conservative and real religious. We have two kids and she comes from a family with many divorces. Cathy has always been keen about keeping it together and being proper. My wife loves me, but emotionally this other guy seems to give her the kind of emotional support she doesn’t get from me. Should I talk to him? I don’t want a duel or any confrontation with either of them. I just don’t want to lose my wife.
–A.L., Providence, RI