I have to provide a list of people (friends and family from my side of family) to be invited to my daughter-in-law’s baby shower. Many of the relatives are estranged. These would be some aunts and cousins of my son. I don’t know how to handle this. I feel silly inviting people I don’t talk to. They are my husband’s sisters. Consequently my son has never gotten to know them or his cousins very well because of this. Yet, I don’t want anyone to feel slighted and make matters worse.