We are hosting an Easter dinner party and trying to figure out the entertaining etiquette for seating a same-sex couple. What is the etiquette for seating twelve guests man-woman-man-woman at a table when one couple is a male same-sex relationship? Will they be insulted if we guess which is butch and which is the femme and seat them accordingly? They are not married, and they haven’t come out to us about who is the husband and who is the wife. What do you suggest?