So make a pact. Assure your boyfriend that you’re committed to keeping your financial independence, but you’d like it if the two of you would start setting aside money to pay for your debt-free wedding. How much can you reasonably both contribute a month to the wedding pot?
- What are your pet hidden expenditures?
- How much of that can you each commit to the wedding pot?
- How much of that can you spend on shared experiences such as date nights, vacations and entertaining friends?
Investing in your long term relationship is something to work on together. Try cutting down by spending more time and money on having shared experiences.
- When friends and relatives learn your plan, they may even offer to pitch in to help pay for your wedding. Wouldn’t that be helpful!
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