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This is my first time being invited to a wedding shower for two women friends and I would like to know the etiquette. Do I bring them both a present? What should I bring them?

–Charlotte, Portland, Oregon

You would respond just as you would when attending a wedding shower for a man and a woman who were being honored — by bringing one present to the celebration. If you were going to a Jack and Jill wedding shower, you would only bring one gift for them both.

Find out where your friends, the wedding couple, are registered and choose something you know they want and need.

~Didi