Whatever Gender Restrooms

My question is about etiquette in whatever gender restrooms.

In an all-gender bathroom, is it OK to ask if the people on either side of you could pass you toilet paper? In an outdoor all-gender restroom at a concert, I wasn’t sure if I should intrude on other people’s privacy. I know now that I would certainly try to help the person out.

–Name Withheld

Thank you for your questions about whatever gender restrooms.

Yes, say it loud and clear: “Do either of you have toilet paper you can share?” Chances are good that one or the other will listen to your need.